I love days that go off without a hitch. Today has been one of those kind of days.
I'be been reading a new book - "Have a New Kid by Friday" by Dr. Kevin Leman.
Don't get me wrong. I think my kids are fantastic...in my opinion, books like these deal far more with parenting problems than with kid problems.
I am a softie and let things go until I yell...there, I admitted it and admitting is, apparently, the first step.
The idea behind the book is that you should only have to ask your kids to do something (or stop doing something) once. It gives strategies for parents to turn kids who tune out into kids who listen...and reasons to stay calm. I think most of us can use some of these.
I am already using some of these strategies successfully and I can honestly say that I have not yelled once today...so far, so good.
We tidied the upstairs and throughly cleaned the kitchen, had a playdate, a snack and played with playdough. Visited the park, had lunch and put a loaf of bread in the breadmaker. Liam voluntarily pooped on the potty (which is good because it would have been messy) then I went upstairs with the boys and told them it was time for a nap...they are still sleeping.
Alan is due home in 2 hours and we will have a salad, fresh loaf of bread and soup for dinner.
I love smooth days...
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